Insider guide to interracial dating
Honestly, move over Serena Williams, because you’re in town now!Whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter to me why you’re reading this article. I’m black, my man is white and we’ve been together for over six years.My dude was a newbie which meant I got to train him to my own unique black girl specifications, it was fun.Yes, you’ll have to be the first to explain hair grease and jumping the broom, and all of that takes time and patience, but the time spent will be worth it.Here’s a tip though, offer to bring a side dish when you’re going to see his people.
I kid, I kid, they have no idea what it means, you’ll have to explain it to him. My man and I went on several “dates” before I even knew we were dating.
I say, who cares why a person asked you out initially if it leads to something special. And what about your random (to Chad) black girl interests?
The stuff that he’s culturally grown up being into that you’ve never heard of or know nothing about and vice versa?
By the way, lacrosse and soul train are stand-ins for whatever that means for you and your would be Chad.
Lacrosse could equal skiing, windsurfing or flip-flops. As long as you’re both willing to learn and share then you both get something out of it.
He will probably one day say/think/feel/communicate something that rubs you the wrong way, this is an opportunity, not a reason to bolt.